See, you can be a hatefilled bastard and nice as hell
http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/08/27/AR2009082704139.html
“Brian Brown speaks to these people. He has a master’s degree from Oxford, and completed course work for a doctorate in history from UCLA. He shoulders the accusations of bigotry; it’s horrible when people say that your life’s mission is actually just prejudice. He tries to help people see that opposing gay marriage does not [...]